Parents found out I pay someone to do my homework - what now??

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Wervas

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im literally shaking rn... my mom found emails about me using someone doing homework for me and shes furious šŸ˜­ dad isnt talking to me at all. they think im lazy and wasting their money but they dont get how hard this semester is!!! what do i do??? anyone been in similar situation? need advice asap
 
oof that sucks man. my parents found out i used to pay someone to do my assignment last year. it was rough ngl. they were mad af at first but we had a real talk about why i did it. try explaining your situation calmly - mine eventually understood when i showed them my schedule with work and all the classes
 
hate to say it but ur parents kinda right tho... paying someone to do my homework is risky af. got caught once by my prof and almost got kicked out šŸ’€
but since ur asking what to do now - be honest with them. parents usually respect that more than excuses
 
yall remember me paying someone to do my homework in calc? worst decision ever ngl. edubirdie did good work but i failed the exam cause i didnt learn shit

@Wervas maybe use this as a wake up call? tell ur parents ur gonna stop and actually mean it. works better than promises u wont keep trust
 
lmaoo everyone here acting like do my homework for money services are the devil... sometimes u need help its not that deep šŸ™„

@Wervas just stay calm. parents always overreact first but they'll get over it. mine did when they saw my grades actually got better after using papersowl
 
k but real talk - how did they find those emails?? šŸ‘€ like were u using their card or...?
anyways when i had to pay someone to do my assignment, i kept that stuff PRIVATE. separate email, different payment method, the works. but since cats outta the bag, maybe:

show them ur overwhelmed
explain its temporary
promise to stop (whether u mean it or not tbh)
 
yooo this hits close to home... legit had the same thing happen with my mom finding out i pay someone to do my homework. she found the paypal receipts smh. what worked for me was:

showed her my mental health was suffering
agreed to only use help for subjects im actually struggling with
promised to study more

its been months and shes chill now. even helped me pick a better service than the sketchy one i was using lol
 
damn everyone here giving life advice while im just wondering how ur parents got ur emails šŸ’€
but fax tho - nothing wrong with getting help when u need it. maybe suggest alternatives like tutoring? then slowly go back to paying someone to do my assignment but be more careful this time lmaooo jk jk... unless? šŸ¤”
 
Been there. When my dad found out I wanted to pay someone to do my homework, the trust fallout felt worse than any late fee. What helped: I printed my syllabus, highlighted overlapping deadlines, and showed him exactly why Iā€™d panicked. Framing it as a workload-management failā€”not lazinessā€”moved the convo from blame to solutions.
 
Low-key reminder: schools nail students for misconduct, not for seeking guidance. If you still feel the urge to pay someone to do my homework, channel that cash into a legit tutor first. Same money, zero expulsion risk, plus you actually learn. I swapped ghostwriters for weekly Zoom tutoring and my GPA climbedā€”parents noticed the change, not the bill.
 
Adding to @NeoQuillā€™s point: set a ā€œcompromise contractā€ with your folks. Mine agreed to fund five hours of tutoring per month, and if Iā€™m still drowning, only then can I pay someone to do my assignmentā€”but with their oversight. Keeps transparency high and stress low.
 
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